Integrity
When people know you for a long time, they come to rely on you to behave in certain ways. It's funny, but my house now has a steady stream of Hispanic women who speak no English, brought to me by my housekeeper, who need various kinds of help--can I phone this lady for them and speak English to her so they can find out the address they have to go to, can I phone the garage that ripped them off and speak to the mechanic, can I go with them to the post office to straighten out a money order? It never (ever, ever) occurs to me that I would not do this. It's a question of someone needing help and I being in the position to offer it. This costs nothing more than my time. And . . . well, if you know me then even mentioning it is silly.
I've been thinking a lot lately about what integrity means as I see the collapse of it in a few situations. It's funny, because the dictionary says integrity is a "steadfast adherence to a strict moral or ethical code."
Now to SOME people, that could look like a church. Or a religion. Or maybe the kind of swearing-in statements made by an officer of the court or the law.
And to SOME people, it's adherence to a different code. Maybe a criminal one (for example, you don't rat out your friends).
For SOME a code is complex with nuanced rules. For SOME the code can be summarized with one or two very simple rules.
For me as a person . . . it's unsurprising that my "code" is my own. It's based on a concept of doing unto others (so yeah, not terribly original there)--and that means even when it's inconvenient or difficult or . . . . And it's not surprising then that my characters have integrity. But the code is most definitely their own.
In the course of Magickeepers, there are tricksters. But their principle is non-Magickeepers are fair game. It's no coincidence that P.T. Barnum is in Book II. There's a sucker born every minute. The Magickeepers are okay with the occasional trick in order to get the relics that must be kept safe. It's their own code. The relics are too dangerous to fall into the hands of the Shadowkeepers.
Nearly every character I've ever created has integrity to some code that you can't find written down anywhere. I think even if tomorrow I created a cop or a detective or a medical examiner . . . or a lawyer . . . or even a priest . . . they would have a code all their own.
And given the lack of integrity I see in the world and its people . . . I like knowing who I can count on in the world of fiction.
So if there is one sentence . . . one Code your main character holds most true, what is it?

18 comments:
Derek Stillwater: if it need to be done, I'll do it.
My guy lives life according to a goal list. That said, his motto is to never veer from the list, otherwise risk losing self-control.
Mark:
A man we can count on. :-) Like it.
Kath:
LIKE IT! I am a chronic list maker.
Colt sometimes mentions rules from an imaginary text titled Nicholas Colt's Philosophy of Life. He's a complicated fellow. Many shades of gray. Maybe I'll publish the entire list someday. :)
But if I had to boil his code of ethics down to a single sentence, it might be know the consequences of your actions, and then proceed on behalf of the greater good.
Jude:
Love that. And his "rules" were one of my favorite parts of the book. :-)
Vivian Love, Lucky Fortune: One for all, and all for us!
Oilvier Haywood: My mother brought me up to know right from wrong.
Pearl Humphrey: I can think for myself, thank you.
JT:
Is the Siren calling? Those are ALLLLLL awesome!
Trinidad: Protect the people.
Starbucks:
I love that people can condense it to a line. Love it!
As you know my main character is myself since I'm working on a memoir. I at least home my biggest code is to treat others exactly how I myself would want to be treated.
I'm not foolish enough to claim I always succeed a that, but it is my primary goal in life.
Being true to myself and my standards would be what is about for me, too.
I had an older friend one time. When his wife developed a brain tumor, was in a coma, and in a nursing home about twenty miles away, he went over every day, visited her, and fought for her when the staff did not treat her as she should have been treated (hadn't cleaned her up, etc.) I would meet him there late afternoon to pray with them.
We buried her one Christmas eve over thirty years ago now.
He is dead now too. But he is still an inspiration to me. He had integrity.
Travis:
And you are a wonderful guy who exudes that.
Joe:
You made me well up.
Integrity.
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I try to give my characters integrity... no matter what side they are on.
For me integrity is:
Honoring your word, which is:
Doing what you said you would do, by when you said you would do it. Letting the appropriate party know that you won't be doing that as soon as you know you won't and; cleaning it up with them and re-promising, or declaring you won't do it at all and dealing with the consequences of that.
However, honoring your word is not the same as keeping your word. That is usually one of the lessons my characters have to learn, sometimes a great cost to themselves and others.
ewoh:
As a mother . . . as a human being . . . I have learned that lesson.
Julia: I'll do anything to help anybody as long as there's something in it for me.
Also just have to mention that my husband has more integrity than any other person I've ever known. He is the only person I've known who is exactly the same person in private as he is in public -- as his wife I know it's true.
His integrity is the greatest gift he's given our children and our marriage. I can't tell you how much that means to me given that integrity was not a value in my childhood home. My folks were all about a stellar public image and keeping our private horrors secret.
Great post. Thanks, Erica.
Beth:
What an amazing little tribute you just wrote to him. I hope you show him. That is a rare quality in people. It's funny . . . Something recently happened where something I wrote caused a person to take offense. I commented that there is nothing here (on my blog) I won't stand behind. What I find repulsive are people who don't want to be called out on public/private faces. I feel like if you have integrity, then you never have to worry about whose company you are in, about lies you tell (particularly lies people tell themselves) . . . you live with authenticity.
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